Do You Focus on Weight Loss or Healthy Living?

by Stephanie on February 23, 2012

It seems like the editors at Daily Buzz Healthy Living (DBHL) and I are on the same wavelength this week.  Minutes after I published my post on Tuesday about learning the facts about labels focusing on gluten-free diets and if they healthy for everyone, I received the Daily Buzz Healthy Living email entitled Gluten Free Mardi Gras.  Then just this morning I finally decided to finish a post I started writing almost two months ago about Weight loss vs Healthy Living  and I received Today’s Top 9 email from DBHL covering the topic Weight vs Wellness.  Today’s topic of conversation is What emphasis do you place on your actual weight v. overall wellness?  Heck yeah, I want to join in on that conversation.

The idea for my original post was inspired by Courtney over at Sweet Tooth Sweet Life  who made an innocent statement that started a great discussion in the comments section of one of her blog posts  If you have time, go back and read her original post but I can summarize it for you quickly.  Courtney is well-known in the healthy living blogging world and she basically made a comment at the beginning of January that she wanted to lose some weight.  That sounds like a fairly normal goal for most people to make after the New Year, especially since many of us tend to indulge a little too much during the holidays.  However after making this comment, people began to question… WHY?  Why did a healthy living blogger want to focus on losing weight?   Some readers were of the opinion that healthy living bloggers should focus on overall wellness and not talk about trying to lose weight. Apparently the topic of losing weight is somewhat taboo in the healthy living blogging world.  

I made a comment on Courtney’s post that day too (nevermind the trash tv comment which has nothing to do with the healthy living vs weight topic): 

10 Stephanie @ Food and Fitness 4 RealJanuary 5, 2012 at 8:35 pm

I tend to focus on healthy living instead of weight loss in my blog. I do think the two go hand in hand but I prefer to eat clean and indulge in moderation. Feeling healthy is more important than a specific goal weight.
As for trash tv, I have been known to watch the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills and Teen Mom 2. I have NEVER watched Jersey Shore before…
Stephanie @ Food and Fitness 4 Real recently posted..My New Fitness Routine for the New Year

In my opinion, being healthy is more important than a specific number on the scale. 

However, that can mean different things for different people. 

  • Being significantly overweight can put a person at higher risk of health related issues like diabetes, high blood pressure, heart disease, etc.  In this case, losing weight goes hand in hand with improving their health.  An example here is the contestants on the Biggest Loser who have severe health issues when they start their weight loss journey. 
  • On the opposite side of the spectrum, some people are simply focused on a specific number on the scale and do not consider their overall health.  This takes into account people who may have eating disorders or think they need to be the same weight they were in high school to be happy.  Losing or getting to a specific weight is their main focus, not thier overall health or wellness.       

In my personal experience, I starting running after I had my kids with the goal to lose the baby weight.  While breastfeeding for 9 months had helped me lose almost all the weight I had gained during my pregnancy, once I weaned my son I put a little weight back on.  My diet and exercise habits at the time both needed improvement so I started making some changes and within a few months I was back at my “happy weight”.  4 Real: My happy weight is the weight where I can still fit in all my clothes comfortably but is not a specific number.  It varies by about 2-5 pounds throughout the month

After I got back to my happy weight, my healthy living journey was not over.  Instead, I started to focus on building healthy eating habits for my entire family.  With two growing children, I don’t focus on a specific weight for them on the scale.  My main goals for my kids are to make sure they are getting nutrients from the food they eat and that they are learning how to make healthy food choices for themselves.  If we build this foundation for a healthy lifestyle now, they are better equipped to deal with weight related issues as they get older.  My husband and I are not only trying to be role models for our children but we are making healthy choices to fight the genetic predisposition to heart disease and high blood pressure that runs in both of our families. 

What I have learned on my healthy living journey is this:

If I am placing the proper emphasis on overall wellness, weight should not be an issue.

Eating for nutrition, getting proper exercise and overall health and energy is more important to me than  a specific number on the scale.  However if I notice that my pants are getting tight or my clothes are fitting as comfortably as they used to… that probably means that I have been slacking with my healthy habits.  I do in fact own a scale and I weigh myself about once a week to see how much my weight fluctuates and if I am above my “happy weight”.  On a side note, Janetha at Meals and Moves wrote about a cool scale that does not tell you your actual weight, only your weight flucutations.  The Zero Scale is an interesting tool that allows you to take away the focus from the actual number on the scale. 

Like Courtney, I also noticed that I had put on some weight around the holidays (mainly because I was Christmas shopping instead of going to the gym on my lunch break).  However, I did not set a goal to lose a certain amount of weight.  Instead, I chose a new exercise program to get me back on track with my healthy habits.  I have completed 6 weeks of the Jamie Eason Live Fit Trainer so far and I can tell you that I have actually gained a few pounds since the beginning of January.  My goal for this program was to put on some muscle (which explains my weight gain), get stronger and then add back in some cardio to get me ready for the Dallas Rock n Roll half marathon and the Warrior Dash this spring.  So I can definitely say that wellness is more important to me than weight. 

Well that and kicking my husband’s butt in the Warrior Dash in April.  I can’t wait to crawl through mud, jump over fire and proudly wear my warrior hat once the race is over. 

Do you put more emphasis on weight or overall wellness?  Do you think that healthy living blogs should only focus on wellness or are they a place to discuss weight loss?  What do you think of the concept of the Zero scale? 

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1 Trey (the husband) February 23, 2012 at 11:04 PM

Really? Kicking my butt? That sounds like a challenge!!!

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2 Savannah @ Sweet and Savvy February 24, 2012 at 3:06 PM

Wonderful post! So well written, so well presented, and such an overall amazing message for everyone! Our culture is so preoccupied with weight loss that it loses sight of what true health is, and I am a firm believer that this hurts a lot of people in the long run!

I am also glad to see that you do not focus on a certain weight for your children’s sake. Parents do not realize that, even if they are telling their kids how beautiful and perfect they are, the parent’s self image is what truly matters. Yay for healthy lifestyles! :)

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3 Stephanie February 24, 2012 at 4:51 PM

Thanks so much for your comments, I am blushing with pride. Being a role model for my children is one of my biggest goals and is the main reason I started making healthy choices about the food we eat. My daughter may see me step on the scale once a week but she sees the food that I eat every day. I hope that I am teaching her that being healthy is more important that how much she weighs.

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4 trish March 7, 2012 at 10:25 AM

Awesome post and I totally agree. I use the “how my clothes fit method” to monitor how I am doing at healthy living. And I do weight myself. But I find the number on the scale tells me much less about my fitness and health then my clothes do. Since I shop alot (LOL) I can easily let the weight creep up and not notice I’m buying bigger sizes – so the scale helps keep me in check. It’s my backup plan. But the number on the scale does not tell you how healthy and fit you are!

I love that you’re focused on your kids and the role model you are for them. This is so important and a topic I am so passionate about.

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5 Stephanie March 8, 2012 at 9:12 AM

Hi Trish, I checked out your blog and it seems like we have similar views about the importance of healthy living. My focus changed dramatically once I had kids and realized that I needed to model for them what being healthy looked like – from eating good foods to exercise, I try to show my kids every day how to make healthy choices.
I like your “how my clothes fit method” too, it is the best indicator that I have been slipping on my healthy habits. Thanks for stopping by and commenting!

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